They say it takes a village to raise a child (and trust me, I could not agree more), but the truth is, it takes a village to thrive in both life and business….and I have seen first hand that community matters. From balancing motherhood to navigating big business decisions, having a strong community can make all the difference.
When I was a single mom during my daughter’s first year, I learned firsthand how much a village can change your life. And now, as a business owner, I’ve realized that same principle applies to running a business—it takes a village.
So, let’s dive into why community matters, how to build your own, and how leaning on your village can help you thrive both personally and professionally.
How My Village Supported Me as a Single Mom
Being a single mom during my daughter’s first year was one of the hardest seasons of my life. Between work, parenting, and just trying to stay afloat, I often felt overwhelmed.
But my village—family, friends, and neighbors—showed up for me in ways I’ll never forget. Whether it was offering babysitting, emotional support, or even just a hot meal, they reminded me that having a village doesn’t make you weak—it makes you stronger.
That season taught me how vital community is—not just in parenting but in every aspect of life.
Why Community Matters in Business
As business owners, it’s easy to feel isolated. You’re juggling everything—strategy, execution, and all the decisions in between—with no corporate team or manager to guide you.
But here’s the thing: it takes a village to succeed in business too.
Here’s how a strong community can help:
- Fresh Perspectives: Your village can offer feedback and ideas you wouldn’t have thought of on your own.
- Encouragement: When self-doubt creeps in, your community reminds you of your worth.
- Shared Wisdom: They’ve been where you are and can share lessons they’ve learned.
- Celebration: Nobody cheers louder for your wins than people who understand the hustle.
Building Your Village
If you’re ready to create your village, here’s where to start:
- Show Up Authentically: Genuine connections start with honesty. Share your real struggles and wins.
- Join Aligned Communities: Find groups where people share your values and goals. (Psst—Girls Girls Membership is a great option!)
- Invest in Relationships: Building a village takes time. Prioritize coffee chats, Zoom calls, or even a quick check-in text.
- Focus on Quality: A small group of trusted connections beats a huge network of surface-level relationships.
It Takes a Village in Every Season
One of the best things about having a village is that it evolves with you. Different seasons of life bring different needs, and your community shifts to meet them.
Here’s how my village looks in this season:
- Family Friendships: My relationships with my husband and kids are my top priority.
- Core Friendships: These are the people who have been there through every high and low.
- Faith-Based Connections: Building relationships that help me grow in my relationship with God.
- Business Village: Women who understand the highs and lows of entrepreneurship and offer support and encouragement.
Leaning on Your Village for Big Decisions
When it’s time to make big moves, here’s how to tap into the power of your community:
- Ask for Feedback: Don’t be afraid to ask your village for advice or perspective.
- Share Openly: Vulnerability deepens connections. Share your fears, hopes, and wins.
- Support in Return: Be the kind of community member you want to have. Celebrate their wins and show up for them too.
My Business Village in Action
When I decided to launch the She Is Going Somewhere Conference, it felt like a leap of faith. The planning, investment, and sheer size of the project were daunting.
But instead of letting fear hold me back, I leaned on my business village. They offered advice, encouragement, and a reminder of why I was doing it in the first place. Today, as the conference comes to life, I’m more grateful than ever for the power of community.
Want to learn more about the conference? Click here.
Final Thoughts: Why Your Village Matters
Whether you’re navigating parenthood, building a business, or both, it takes a village to thrive. Your community offers the support, wisdom, and encouragement you need to grow and succeed.
If you’re still searching for your village, start building it today—you won’t regret it.
Join the Girls Girls Membership
Looking for a community of women who get it? The Girls Girls Membership is the perfect place to find your people.
Inside, you’ll find:
- A supportive network of like-minded women
- Honest feedback and encouragement
- Resources to help you thrive in life and business
Ready to join? Click here to get started today!
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